Murdered toddlers birthday tomorrow


Happier times, little Yazmina with mum, Rachelle, would be 3 tomorrow

 

In what should have been a happy fun weekend full of excitement, this poor family are arranging their little angels funeral…Should never ever happen like this, what can we do about possessive exe’s who are capable of doing this. I have read all over the net and here from ex school friends of this bloke, he has always been a tool and control freak among other things…

YAZMINA Acar should have been celebrating her third birthday tomorrow. Instead, family will be preparing her funeral.

Their grief will be compounded by the fact the bubbly toddler‘s father, Ramazan Acar, is behind bars, charged with her stabbing murder.

The party for Yazmina, who would have turned three on Tuesday, was to include a clown and face-painting.

Acar, of Meadow Heights, was waiting at ex-fiance  Rachelle D’Argent’s house in Hallam on Wednesday night and told her he wanted to take their daughter to the milk bar to buy lollies.

Ms D’Argent, 24, agreed, but became worried when they didn’t return and phoned police.

Yazmina’s body was found in grassland at Greenvale, in Melbourne’s north, early on Thursday morning.

Ms D’Argent was too distressed to talk yesterday.

Grandfather George D’Argent said the toddler, nicknamed Mini or Mina, was loved by those around her.

“She was very much into the Wiggles and dancing to Lady Gaga’s music,”

“We’re still coming to grips with what happened. We’re still trying to make (sense) of exactly why it happened.

“There are lots of ifs and buts. It’s going to be very, very difficult.”

Mr Acar, 23, regularly detailed his feelings and movements on his Facebook page during the day and night, declaring his love for Yazmina.

The posts – made via mobile phone – are expected to be examined as part of the homicide squad investigation.

At one stage he wrote:”I lv (love) u Mimi”, in an apparent reference to his daughter.

In another post, he says he is at a cemetery next to his grandmother’s grave.

At one stage, he says: “Tha truth iz im in love”.

A man who said he was Mr Acar’s father, but did not want to be named, said Yazmina was an angel.

“She always was. She always will be,” the man said.

Ms D’Argent and Mr Acar were childhood sweethearts before breaking off their engagement several months ago.

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  2. I cannot understand these people that murder innocent children. How do their minds work. How are they brought up? What kind of parents do they have. I think in cases of pre-meditated murder, as this was the Death Penalty should be applied. When he goes to jail I hope there are a few parents who will teach him a lesson he won’t forget. I’m not violent person, but some things are just too hard to cope with.

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    • Hi Averill, I really reckon in these cases it comes down to pure selfishness. A child (boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, lover etc etc) becomes an inconvenience to them. Sure it might be a snap thing, crying etc, but when it impedes on their lifestyle their fried brain thinks” Hey here’s a solution”…In some cases one they regret the second they make that decision to kill. Others are cool calm collected, disconnected, a person is no different to disposing, than a old car, stale milk…They have a name for these detached people…Sociopath is it?

      Profile of the Sociopath

      Some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.

      Glibness and Superficial Charm

      Manipulative and Conning
      They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.

      Grandiose Sense of Self
      Feels entitled to certain things as “their right.”

      Pathological Lying
      Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.

      Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
      A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.

      Shallow Emotions
      When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.

      Incapacity for Love

      Need for Stimulation
      Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.

      Callousness/Lack of Empathy
      Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others’ feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.

      Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
      Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.

      Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
      Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet “gets by” by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.

      Irresponsibility/Unreliability
      Not concerned about wrecking others’ lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.

      Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
      Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.

      Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
      Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.

      Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
      Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

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